1. You Will be Attracted to Him
The word attracted is bold because it’s not all about looks. Trust me. I’ve dated guys that were not the prettiest but the connection we shared was all I needed. I was attracted to their personality or simply because our vibes were on the same wavelength.
We all have our preferences when it comes to physical attraction. Mine for some reason is their legs and their back. But attraction isn’t just physical.
Labossiere states three reasons for where there is a lack of attraction.
The lack of effort
When you’re not attracted to the person, you don’t put effort into the relationship. It’s how they are, how they talk to you, how their mannerisms are, etc… the lack of desire and attraction will lead to a lack of effort.
Unfortunately, this was my case, I was all about putting in the effort. It was a different story for him, it would be a burden for him to even put in an effort. Whether that effort was to make me smile, to plan a date night, or even just to spend some time with me.
Now, this also leads to an important point Labossiere makes, if you love your partner, if you care about them, you will want to do things to feed, maintain, and nurture the attraction. Meaning… don’t stop trying to look good for them – you should want to look good for your partner.
Lack of affection.
If you aren’t giving your partner affection, they will not feel desired in the relationship; and if they feel undesired it’s going to cause problems.
This. Just this. Thank you for stating this Labossiere.
This is exactly how I felt.
I felt undesired, unwanted, unloved by him. This caused me to move on fast after he decided to end the relationship. Everything he lacked was provided for me in the next guy. I was gifted with the affection and desire I craved by the new guy.
Lack of respect.
Lack of respect will destroy a relationship.
YASSSSS Labossiere. Say it louder for the people in the back!
I am someone who puts respect above love. If there is no respect then there’s no love. This goes for any relationship, especially in self-love.
The man I was in love with lacked respect when it came to my emotions, hardships, and honestly, my mental health.
When in love, we tend to have those damn blinders on and fail to see that there is in fact no way around these red flags that everyone but you seem to notice.
Labossiere ends this trait by reminding us that we will be attracted to the man God has for us.
Make sure this is the man that HE wants you to move forward with. This will get you peace of mind and leave you feeling whole instead of moving forward with an unsettling feeling of getting less than what you desire or what makes you happy. That’s not what God wants for your life or for your relationship.
Trust your intuition. Women’s intuition is stronger than the glue on Gorilla Glue Girl’s hair.
As always,
With much love,
E.Barona
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